Steering the Teen Years
The teenage years are a whirlwind—a time when kids are no longer kids but not quite adults. As they change rapidly, your parenting style needs to shift too. The secret to navigating this phase? --Communication, respect, and trust.
The Teenage Transition
Teens are on a journey of self-discovery. They:
Crave independence.
Seek respect and equality.
Shift their role models beyond family.
Build their identity.
Your role isn’t to control them—it’s to guide them with understanding and empathy.
The Power of Communication
What you say matters. Every word or reaction can echo back with double the impact. Teens value openness and clarity, not lectures or mixed signals.
Keep conversations straightforward, respectful, and judgment-free. Listening is as important as speaking—sometimes even more.
The Two Big No’s
Don’t Compare Them to Others
Comparisons feel like rejection. Focus on their unique strengths and support their growth at their own pace.
Don’t Try to Control Them
Teens are individuals, not extensions of you. Respect their autonomy. This shift strengthens your bond and transforms how you see and connect with them.
Lead by Example
Teens watch what you do more than what you say. If you want them to embrace respect, patience, or integrity, live those values yourself. Actions always speak louder than words.
Remember: Steering your teen isn’t about controlling their journey—it’s about being their compass. Communicate clearly, respect their individuality, and model the values you hope to see.