With over three decades of building careers and lives, I've come to a profound realization: the words we exchange shape the trajectory of our lives. Whether professional or personal, the company we keep and the conversations we share define our experiences. Great careers and fulfilling lives are impossible without the magic of meaningful interactions.

At the heart of every high-stakes conversation lies storytelling—an art that turns ordinary moments into something extraordinary. Stories captivate us, making our shared experiences resonate deeply. As someone who thrives on great conversations, I find joy in the flow of energy, thoughts, and words.

Over the years, I’ve distilled the essence of powerful conversations into three golden rules:

Stay Rooted in the Present

Conversations focused on the present create positivity and hope. While the past may carry lessons, it can also bring discomfort. The present is where life happens, and where we connect authentically.

Choose Action Over Abstraction

Use the Do family of language—verbs that convey movement and energy—over the Be family, which relies on static nouns and adjectives. Verbs evoke emotions, tell dynamic stories, and bring your message to life.

End with Joy

No conversation is complete without shared smiles and laughter. The best moments linger long after you’ve left, echoing through the joy they create.

Every word you choose is a brushstroke in the masterpiece of connection. Focus on presence, action, and joy, and you'll transform your conversations—and your relationships—into something remarkable.